7 Feng Shui Tips To Attract Love Into Your Life
If you are in a phase of life that is seeing an extended period of singlehood while you are actively seeking a partner, maybe it’s time to call on the power of the elements for assistance in this aspect.
Feng shui has long been practiced for romance and marriage luck not only in Eastern culture, but in the western world as well.
And because feng shui is a metaphysical science instead of a religion, more and more people around the world have come to acknowledge the power that it might bring to a person’s life.
Here are 7 feng shui tips to help you get rid of that single tag fast.
1) Eliminate clutter
Not only is clearing clutter at home or bedroom a step forward for feng shui, it is also basic common sense.
If you saw the movie Limitless starring Bradley Cooper, you might recall the scene when he first experienced the amazing transcending effect the pill had on him, was to clean up his place.
When his mind was clear and operating at it’s full potential, eliminating clutter was the first thing that came to mind by instinct.
The truth is that the way you live is a reflection of you and how you see yourself.
If your house, apartment or room is in a mess, the image it projects makes it’s way into your mind sub-consciously.
- Throw away everything you do not need
- Keep things you will not need today in a storage are out of sight
- Stop buying products that you don’t need today
- Organize the stuff you use regularly
Clutter is one of the worst enemies of geomancy.
Keep in mind that failing to attract the girl of your dream might be a lack of good feng shui, but it can be due to the presence of bad feng shui.
2) Find your personal element
According to the 4 pillars of destiny (bazi), every individual has a personal element represented by the element of the day on the birth date.
By identifying your personal element, you would be able to discover what elements represent the various aspects of life, including love and relationships.
To find your personal element, use the URL below, then replace the word “year” with your birth year (e.g.1982, 1976, 1969, etc) to the end of it as indicated.
Replace the word year in the URL above with your birth year.
Once you land on the page, look up your birthday from the tables and identify the “HS of day”.
Once you find it, refer to this heavenly stems table and see what your personal element is.
For example, if you find your number as “3” on the Wikipedia page, your personal element would be Fire as referenced from the heavenly stems table.
The following is what element represents your romance luck according to your personal element.
|Romance Element When You Are Male
|Romance Element When You Are Female
From the table above, it shows that if you are a man with Fire personal element, then the element that represents your romance and marriage is Metal.
So it could be useful to wear some metal accessories like metal necklace chains, pendants, rings, belt buckles, mobile phone casing, etc.
You can also wear more colors associated with metal like white, gray, silver, gold, etc.
Whatever it is, in this example, you need more metal to enhance your romance luck according to your personal element.
If you are a woman and want to use feng shui to attract a man, follow the above methodology as well.
The science of Bazi of course, goes much deeper than this. Much much deeper.
But for the basic application of romance luck, the above suggestion holds true.
3) Enhancing the Kun trigram
Don’t let the complexity of the title scare you. It just means to find a sector of the house and making changes to enhance the energy present in that space.
There are 8 directions in general, and each direction is represented by one of the 8 trigrams.
The Kun trigram resides at the southeast sector.
This means that you need to use a compass to identify the southeast section of the house.
Assuming you have already done the decluttering as mentioned previously, place symbols of love and romance in this southeast sector of the house.
Symbols of love include paintings of hearts, cupid, relationship quotes, rose quarts, couple jewelry, etc.
Use the color red if possible.
4) Find your auspicious direction
According to the 8 mansions school of thought in feng shui, each person has a particular direction that he or she has harvest relationship luck.
To identify that personal direction, one needs to calculate his or her Kua number.
With the kua number, you would be able to locate a particular direction called Yen Nian which means longevity.
The simple calculations based on adding up the numbers in your year of birth, and tables to identify Yen Nian can be found on this kua number guide.
It takes no more than a minute to calculate it.
So if you want feng shui to give your love life a push, don’t be lazy.
If for example, you have identified a kua number of 9, your yen nian direction would be north.
To apply this concept, it would be best to sleep in a position with your head pointing to the north, seat on a chair on the dining table facing the north, position your computer table so that you face the north, you get the idea.
Pointing to this direction, your would be absorb the energy that can improve your love life.
5) Locate the romance star
According to flying star feng shui, a powerful romance star moves around the house annually.
In fact, there are romance stars that move about 20-yearly, monthly, daily, etc.
It’s just that tapping on the annual star is more worth your time as it is powerful enough to be potent and don’t require your constant monitoring.
For this year 2018, the romance star represented by the number 4 flies in from the south of the house.
For this reason, some type of fixtures that signify the wood element placed here will be ideal.
Flowers would be good as they are of wood element and call on the famous peach blossom luck. Peony flowers can also be considered.
6) Bedroom arrangement
There is a lot that can be written about regarding the feng shui of a bedroom.
But let’s just look at it from a romance and love luck perspective.
The position of the bedside should not be placed against the wall. Ideally, it should be positioned at a central alignment with just the headboard against the wall.
At the same time, the door should not confront the bed directly as it puts you in harm of energy force that enters when the door is open.
Just think of it this way.
If one side of the bed is against the wall, a partner would not be able to get in on the other side of the bed.
The exception to this rule is if there is a window at the wall area where the bedhead is.
If this bed orientation puts your head under a beam, then consider installing canopies around the bed frame to protect yourself.
To double down on this bed arrangement signifying the welcoming of romance luck, place 2 side tables on both sides of the bed.
Another thing to note is position of mirrors.
Mirrors are essential items in a bedroom. But in feng shui, they should not be directly facing the bed.
Keeping in mind that there are a variety of bedroom configurations and that not everyone can freely reposition a mirror either due to space constraints or them being fixtures, here are some things you can do to make the most of what you have.
- When resting and sleeping in bed, you should not see a reflection of yourself in the mirror.
- Cover them up with textile covers when not in use.
- Instead of having them on the face of the wardrobe door, consider relocating them on the back of the wardrobe door so that you can still access it by swinging open the door.
- Locating mirrors on the back of the bedroom door can be a good idea as it is hidden when the door is open. It can also be a good choice in the layout shown previously.
- Television sets in the bedroom also act as mirrors. So cover them up when not in use.
And remember rule number 1.
7) Invest in yourself and believe
Feng shui is all about self-improvement and personal development.
The more skill your learn and knowledge you pick up, the more balanced you become as a person.
And one of the primary objectives of feng shui is to seek balance. The yin-yang symbol is testament to that.
Go attend classes of skills you’ve always want to learn but always found an excuse not to, read up about topics what have always piqued your interest but never found time to, and spend more time socializing with your friends.
The more balanced and complete your life is (other than the romance side), the more likely that lady luck would shine on you.
That’s without mentioning that the better you feel about yourself, the more likely you are to attract the type of partner you like.
While feng shui grandmasters of often advocate that feng shui has a huge influence on life whether you believe it or not, believing in it tend to work better than not.
If you don’t believe that feng shui would help you achieve the results you want, then you have already failed halfway before even getting started.
Anyway, if you don’t believe that these feng shui romance enhancers would work, why are you reading to this point in the first place. 😀
I urge you to fully immerse yourself with the belief that following the above recommendations would work for you.
Then see the results for yourself.
Finally, I recall the the metaphoric story of how someone drowned in a flood, went to heaven, and asked God why he didn’t save him when he had been praying to be saved all the time. God replied that he sent the neighbors, the police, the firemen, the coast guard, etc, to save him. But he rejected their efforts and continued waiting for God to rescue him. In the end, he drowned.
The point I’m trying to make is that feng shui might bring you all the romance luck in the world, but if you don’t take advantage of them, then don’t blame feng shui for not being there when you needed it.
This short guide is contributed by FengShuied.com