7 Tips For Getting Your Ex Girlfriend To Love You Again
Finally having the woman of your dreams is one of the greatest things that can happen in a man’s life.
Somehow, dishes taste better, days seem shorter, and work becomes lighter. Then, by some strange twist of fate, something goes terribly wrong in your relationship.
A large percentage of it may be your fault, but you just don’t see that right away.
As a result, she turns her back and walks away with your heart. She leaves you watching her as she indirectly tells you to just accept things and move on.
Can you really do this? Are you really prepared to wake up every morning without her anymore?
Individuals of science have always said that men are not designed to cherish just one woman.
When this happens to you, then you know that you’re one of the special ones. Special men like you, eventually find that special woman.
Well, even if you do find her, things may get shaky during the relationship and you end up losing her. This is when you realize that your first set of efforts is not enough. You just have to get her back again and do it right.
Once you realize that your ex-girlfriend is the one you should spend the rest of your life with, you want to do everything to have her fall in love with you again.
Of course, not all women are blind to the truth that they are experiencing an imbalance in the relationship.
Some, like your ex-girlfriend, realize that they deserve a better man. Wouldn’t it be great if you were actually that man, after all?
If you desire to make your girlfriend fall in love with you again, accept the fact that it can be a near impossible task.
Yet, it is possible. Below are some of the necessary steps in making your ex-girlfriend fall in love with you, as if it were the first time you met:
Years back, making your ex girlfriend fall in love with you again may have been unthinkable. Men just wallowed in their sorrow and silently cried as they watched other men, sweep their ex girlfriends off their feet.
Fortunately, you are not in that era anymore. This day and age allows you to do certain tactics to get your ex girlfriend back.
The following are simple steps you can choose to follow to have her in your arms again:
1) Handle the breakup with respect and maturity
This means that you have to erase constant calling, incessant crying, and persistent begging after she breaks up with you.
This doesn’t really work.
No woman in her right mind would take a man back out of pity. That would be like getting a brick and hitting your own head with it.
When you keep pushing something into one’s face, that object becomes less appealing.
It is human nature to want something, which you cannot have easily.
Even if you are slowly deteriorating inside as you talk to her, resist the urge to cry and beg.
Do not expose your weakness. Instead, let her see how strong, accepting, and mature you are. In the end, your ex will see you more attractive.
2) Do not communicate with her.
It helps if you do not keep in touch with her in any way, for the meantime. This is a difficult task to do, especially if you want to tell her how much you miss her.
A hold in communication allows you to give her the space that she needs. The space you provide will give her the time to realize that she misses you.
Even if you can’t take it anymore, fight the urge to pick up that phone, tablet, or laptop. Also, refrain from asking her out on a “friendly” date.
Use the time you have to concentrate on yourself. Recover and realize what you need to do.
When she sees you at your best, she will eventually be the one who initiates the talk.
3) Start reconnecting with her.
Once you feel that it is finally the right time to reconnect with your ex, do it.
It can start as a harmless, casual, SMS message.
She may or may not respond right away.
Yet, if you know that you have successfully went through the first two steps, she can get back to you right away.
By the time you start communicating with her again, curiosity will overcome her, and she will reconnect with you as well.
4) Reflect on your past relationship with her.
Before you start anything to get her back, think about what happened when you had her in your arms the first time.
This is not the time to wallow in your pride and think only of her mistakes.
Things may have gone south, but face it—most of the mistakes were yours. You still wear the pair of pants in the relationship and it was still your responsibility to take care of her.
Think about your shortcomings and start to figure out how you can make them right.
Once you realize what you have done, you can then start form a fresh relationship with her.
5) Start acting on your shortcomings, even if you’re not with her
If you were a self-absorbed man before, do things that can erase that image from her mind.
Be involved in your community. Share your talents and time to others.
You should do this with true intentions, though. Women can tell if you’re just acting it out. If you were possessive and controlling before, then stop following her around. You should not risk making her think that you are an obsessed, selfish man.
6) Be welcoming of her friends—male or female
Jealousy is never good. Overcome this by getting to know all of her friends.
She will easily notice this change in you and wonder if you are already a changed man.
7) Socialize with her crowd
This can open a new door for you and your ex-girlfriend.
A few drinks can bring about new stages in the way you knew each other.
When you do start a conversation with her, veer away from the serious topics. Just see to it that you have fun with each other again and things can start over from there.
Making your ex-girlfriend fall in love with you again takes time. If you really want to have her in your life again, be sure you keep her best interest at heart this time around. Be patient and things will be better for you and your chosen girl again. This time, please don’t screw it up. And when things don’t go well, be a man and move on. You are bigger than that.
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