7 Signs A Woman Is Inviting You To Make A Move On Her… And You May Not Even Notice It
I’ve spoken to a number of females friends regarding courtship and the like. One thing I still find fascinating is how a woman can go crazy over a guy but refuses to make a bold first move on him because she doesn’t want to appear as a “slut”. Coupled with how sissy-like men have become these days… no wonder a lot of people are DATELESS and not getting laid…
Believe it or not, most of the time women MAKE THE FIRST MOVE on men they are interested in. They give out signs that they are interested in the man. Too bad most dateless men are not able to tune in to the frequency even though women find that those signs that they give out are AS CLEAR AS DAY!
Do note that just because a women has made an initial move on you doesn’t mean that she is ready to sleep with you 😛 You are still expected to game her with slickness. So noticing these signals from women only gives you the green light to bring out your seduction arsenal. Because courtship consists of many stages, sending you a signal that she is interested is only an indication that she is open to your game to take her to the next stage of courtship. You STILL have to smoothly take her through the process and claim her like a man.
Here is a classic guide on being a man.
The KEY difference is that she is OPEN to your game. You will find less resistance from her.
So here it goes.
1) She has not resisted being alone with you on AT LEAST 2 instances.
Women are masters at avoiding awkward one-on-one situations with men they don’t like. They would rather take a long walk down the street on a hot day than to spend 15 minutes alone with a disgusting guy she has no sexual interest in on a bus. Even if you have a group project meeting and you came early and found her early as well… she will not want to spent personal time with you if she doesn’t have an interest in you. She will likely whip out her iPhone and fiddle on a worthless APP or talk to a friend on an urgent call instead of talking to you on an individual basis.
She may give you that one chance on a first coincidental incident to be alone with her. If she does not like what you have put her through, there will NEVER be a second time.
So when she has allowed herself to be alone with her on at least 2 occasions, it’s time to step up your game.
2) She reveals her cleavage to you AND does not fix it when you call her on it.
Women wear alluring dresses all the time but gives a look of disgust whenever a guy checks her out. There is a common misconception that women dress that way to RAISE their attraction to men.
The reality of what’s going on is that women dress that way to RAISE their attraction for that ONE man that means something to her. Every banana means nothing to her EXCEPT that ONE banana.
There’s a lot of psychology going on here. Like making the man she wants see that she has a very high value to other men. And you will be floored if you know what is on their minds when they look at you. But I’m not going to go into that.
Next time you managed to steal a peek at her cleavage, call her out on it. If she does nothing to fix it or “fix” it just to easily reveal her depth to you 3 seconds later, you have been given the all-clear to make your move.
3) She leans over you
Women are instinctively more cleanliness inclined. Most would rather go without a meal than to have any body contact at all with a man she has no interest in. However, when women are interested in a man, any amount of body contact is NOT ENOUGH no matter what a piece of junk he is.
Place yourself between her and her handbag and see if she leans over you to grab her stuff. She may ask you to pass her her bag or move around you to get her bag. But if she leans over you and is not bothered with brushing her body against yours, you have got a winner here.
Remember to spank her for being naughty when she leans over. 😛
4) She laughs at every lame joke you make
This is as obvious as it gets. When everyone in the group has no idea what the crap you mean when you told that lame joke while she is the only one that “gets it”, you can bet your Star Wars figurines that she is interested in you.
Sometimes someone in the group will ask her if she understood your joke… and she cannot explain… Priceless.
5) She contacts you at ODD hours
Let’s face it. Humans wake in the day and sleep at night. We are conditioned to do so. The only logical reason you will stay up way into the night is if you are working on that million dollar proposal you boss demands from you tomorrow.
Odd hours between 1am – 6am are VERY personal time. So when she text or calls you during these hours when you are expected to be asleep, she is already making a bold move to risk waking you up from your beauty sleep. You can easily apply basic flirting tricks into texting. Just be careful not to be a weirdo who does not know when to back off.
She is thinking about you and wants you to know that… even if it means that you only sees her text message or missed call later in the morning when you wake up. She WANTS you to know that she was thinking about you late into the night rolling in her bed.
Please relieve her from her mental torture and make a move on her fast 😛
6) She tells her friends about you
Women cares about how their friends think about their partners much more than men do. In fact, I would go to the extent to say that the BIGGEST reason women look for MR RIGHT is so that they can show their friends that they have found MR RIGHT. Not because Mr Right is so right for her.
This means that when she tells her friends about you, she is taking a risk of looking like an idiot who has fallen for a loser who may not like her back. So to tell her friends means that she has confidence of closing the deal with you while attempting to get “approval” from her friends to move forward with you.
Note: DO NOT be a wuss and ask her what she told her friends about you.
7) She is fine going to your place alone
This is the MOTHER of all signals. Please flick yourself if you are still confused if a woman likes you when she has already spent time at your place ALONE.
The truth is that anything can be done outside a home. If she willingly puts herself in a vulnerable situation like going to your place ALONE… your TERRITORY… she is literally BEGGING you to step up like a man and claim her.
No woman would likely risk being called a slut for casually going to a man’s place alone just “to watch football”. Even more so if she’s married.
Remember that even when women sends you clear signs that she is interested in you, it does not mean that she wants you to ravage her body like a porno movie. It simply means that she is open to moving forward with you.
You still have to smoothly lead her through the mating ritual to make her your girlfriend.
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