Put Her On A Pedestal And Treat Her Like A Princess
While you are clamoring through you daily routines looking for that special woman… the one of your dreams… the one on the Playboy cover… your soul-mate…your princess, you want to do everything RIGHT when you finally run into her.
It’s a pity most men do everything WRONG! You know… the things that popular television series and blockbuster romance flicks will guarantee that you win over her heart… The things that clearly tell her that she can have your sausage in a disposable lunch box.
Don’t get me wrong. It is very thoughtful to buy flowers, send cute messages, and tell her that she “completes” you. The KEY here is timing.
Your thoughtfulness can be perceived as possessiveness, romantic perceived as creepy doggy, and caring becomes desperate. When you perform these acts determines how you are being perceived by the hot chick you think about in the shower last night.
HOLD your horses because TIMING is everything.
So when exactly is the right timing?
Dating is a stage-by-stage process. You can robustly plough through it like a machine in 5 hours. Or make her anticipate your every next move for 2 or more weeks. The period where you will not screw up your chances for behaving like a romantic wuss is during which ATTRACTION is present AND she is missing you. Your first noticeable romance act HAS to be in this period of dating to seed it down. Any romance acts after you’ve seeded it will be fine.
If for example, you buy her her favourite Hello Kitty soft toy before she feels attraction for you, the game is over. You will be just another creepy suitor for her to joke and boast about with her friends.
You timing HAS to be right.
Don’t worry if you are unable to read these subtle communications. It takes time and practice.
Do this. Be nonchalant and WAIT until she DEMANDS it from you. Now, she may attempt to tell you subtly or directly. When she directly TELLS you how she wants you to romance her, you are doing fine. But when you catches her subtle requests and do little act to show her that you are thinking about her, you are communicating to her that you “Get It”. You are demonstrating that you understand her, understands the dating ritual, and most importantly, she will perceive that there is that little thing called “Chemistry” between the two of you.
Remember the movie “Pretty Woman”? In the final scene Richard Gere finally “became” Julia Robert’s knight in shining armour. It happened after he was sure of her attraction for him and he got her subtle message to romance her. If Richard Gere had done that when they first met on the street, what do you think would be Julia Robert’s reaction to him?
Sausage in a lunch box.